My BFF and I had an informative conversation last week about the importance of the much debated role of the back up plan. Not all people that reside in this role are our 'Plan B's.' Some are simply people that we haven't yet dated because of timing, geography, or other such symbolic obstacles. But these metaphorical seat fillers are an amazing addition to our romantic repertoire, often instilling a much needed jolt of hope and curiosity down the line.
This BFF and I were discussing the fact that neither of us had back up plans anymore. We had either tried to date these specific people, and things went awry, or -for whatever reason- they had somehow expired.
There is something to be said for the peace of mind and ego boosts that a back up plan can grant you... Relatedly, it can feel like a terrible void when you have exhausted your plan B's, and feel like you have *no* options of interest left in the world. A sad day indeed.
So, the next time that cozy acquaintance looks your way, and makes you smile in that ridiculously coy way – thank your lucky stars that you have this person to revive your spirits.
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